I know I talk about this a lot, but it always amazes me how God comes through just in the nick of time. Granted, sometimes God's timing scares me; I'm a planner. I want to know what's going to happen, when it's going to happen, how it's going to happen, who it's going to happen with, and I want to know all of this at least a month in advance. That's my timing; God's timing doesn't usually match up with that, so I get worried until He works things out. One day I'll learn not to do this. Until that day, I'm going to keep thanking God for providing just in what I consider the nick of time.
WHAT?! ::insert Melissa freakout mode here::
So as I'm trying my hardest not to let Eddie the Bailiff know that I'm almost in tears, I thank him and hang up. Next call? To Mom, hoping she can fix this. How? Not totally sure. Maybe she has an ordained minister and a beautiful wedding location that are both free and available on 11/11? Close. She recommended an elementary schoolmate's ordained father and their beautiful great room for the ceremony. After a few frantic phone calls to hunt down our (hopefully) minister, as well as a sitting on my friend Krista's floor deciding if getting her ordained online would work, I hear back from Pastor Oglesbee and set up a meeting to talk about it. Now my nerves are going full-force: what if he won't marry us because it's last minute and we haven't done any premarital counseling with him?
It's funny how God works. :)
We met with Pastor Oglesbee on Sunday afternoon, and it was perfect. He's every bit as wonderful as I remember him being when I would go to his house to play with his daughter, and he's more than happy to perform our ceremony! Best part? At the courthouse, it would have been a very clinical "ceremony" without any mention of God at all. Pastor Oglesbee's ceremony, on the other hand, is a traditional Methodist ceremony and puts God right in the middle of it, much like our marriage will be. It's perfect, and it's amazing how God makes things work.
It was actually a very wedding-filled weekend. My fiance, Mom, and I checked out a gorgeous, absolutely perfect ceremony/reception venue for the traditional wedding next year, their date of availability is perfect with our plans, and the owner is doing so much to help us work within the means of our budget! It's truly a blessing to find this place, and hopefully we'll be signing the contract for it very, very soon. On Sunday Mom and I went to a bridal show. We may have found the DJ, we got the tux situation settled (yay for deals and me winning a $50 gift certificate!), and we tested roughly 15 kinds of cake. It was wonderful! I also got to grab my shoes from home and was able to spend today getting them ready:
Lots of blessings, lots of provisions, and lots of excitement for our wedding!
It's going to be here so soon, and I can't believe how quickly it's coming up. In 17 days, I will be married to my best friend and starting the next chapter of our lives together (plus having a pretty great little honeymoon, too!) The next 2 weeks can't go by fast enough!